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A License to be a Parent

The Normal Animals reproduce without thinking much about it. Some take care of their young. Some make their young fend for themselves. Some just lay eggs and go away. When the young hatch, they are completely at the mercy of predators. In some species, the young eat the parent. In other species, the parent eats the young or the female bites off the head of her mate. Plants create seeds, while the single celled amoeba simply divides into two. Creatures mate and give birth by instinct. Some kind of a programmed need. Humans are different. We are capable of exercising a choice and we have the means to not just prevent conception, but also to abort and even save the mother and child if delivery complications happen. The Oddities However, despite having such control, humans are still subject to pressures of society which force people to get married and have children even if they do not want to. There are a few problems with this. The weight of responsibility is not understood by many until ...
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Unexplained Musculo-Skeletal Pain Explained

 The Normal Normally, I've experienced muscle pain when I've done a lot of exercise (muscles needed rest) or when I've been injured. The cause and rest or medication for these cases were easy to diagnose and treat. The perplexing phenomenon was when the pains happened for no obvious reason. All of a sudden, some muscles near my ribs would give me dull pain. Sometimes it'd be a tiny sharp pain. The doctor said there's no disease or medical condition that could be detected. At times it'd be at my molars (which made me think I had tooth decay, but the dentist said there isn't). Sometimes it'd feel like itching on the gums at my molars (but the dentist said I don't have gum disease). Sometimes it'd be close to the bones of my leg. Sometimes at the base of my spine. This one was excruciating when it lasted for a week. It became difficult to stand up or sit down. Sometimes the pain would be at a specific finger. Each time this happened, the pains would...

The Gift of Flight

The Normal My mother grew up in what could be considered a paradise. My grandparents had a large yard with chickens, ducks, a large aquarium with exotic fishes, beautifully cut hedges, three large mango trees on whose massive branches we created swings, a pond with tortoises and beautiful fishes with red flaming tails, a bunch of other fruit trees and fan-tailed pigeons. These pigeons were not caged. They were free to fly anywhere they wanted. In-fact, once a relative asked for a pair of pigeons, took them 30km to his house and released them in his yard. Both pigeons flew all the way back to my mothers house. Turns out, pigeons have a terrific homing signal that's aided by the Earth's magnetic field.  " I always wonder why birds choose to stay in the same place when they can fly anywhere on earth. Then I ask myself the same question. " - Harun Yahya Each of these nuances that made up the little paradise, were a mirror of what each family member observed in other peopl...